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Old 12-19-2006, 11:26 PM
justme6340 justme6340 is offline
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Default How to get your husband to admit he cheated, or his lover to tell you?

I have alot of circumstantial evidence that that highly suggests he cheated on me. Ofcourse I have asked him and even confronted him with the evidence and he had a million dollar answer to my questions. I have called her and tried everything to get her to tell me....just flat out asking, damn near begging and pleading with her, I've been nice and not so nice. They are both sticking to their answers that nothing happened. MAYBE thats true, but with the evidence that I found, I highly doubt it. The evidence is: secret phone calls to her from his business cell phone (the bill dont come to my house, goes to his employer, I found out by viewing his bill online) he deletes the call history of them two calling each other, when I asked him if he ever called her, he lied and said, no, just emails, ofcourse he didnt know that I knew he did. So i just let him lie to me. So, he aint gonna tell, too much to loose, but how do I get to her, to get her to tell me?For those of you that will say I am crazy like my first answer. Let me add he cheated once before and did the same thing with that floozy that he is doing with this one. Deleting call history, etc. I know it in my heart, I just want to hear the words by one of them.
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Old 12-20-2006, 04:22 PM
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Default How to get your husband to admit he cheated, or his lover to tell you?

you're crazy ... nothing happened.... do you love him or not?? are you on a witch hunt??
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Old 12-21-2006, 09:17 AM
mizzgrizz01 mizzgrizz01 is offline
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Default How to get your husband to admit he cheated, or his lover to tell you?

go to downloads. com and get a keylogger for your computer, this keeps track of emails coming and going from your computer..
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Old 12-22-2006, 02:13 AM
babyontheway2469 babyontheway2469 is offline
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Oh god I hate it when this happens, I had to beg my husband for him to confess he was cheating and it ended up being true. Well have you tried maybe counseling, it could be that a professional can help him get that thing out of his system.
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Old 12-22-2006, 07:08 PM
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Default How to get your husband to admit he cheated, or his lover to tell you?

She is not going to tell you because then that would break the trust they have with each other. Which would probably cause him to leave her alone for causing problems in his relationship. The only way she would say something is if he said something first or if you really had evidence. The phone records are evidence of them talking, and is not solid enough to say that they are sleeping together. Now since you have found out that they are talking he is going to cover that up even more so you won't know they are still talking.
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Old 12-23-2006, 12:04 PM
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Default How to get your husband to admit he cheated, or his lover to tell you?

You know your gut, your gut tells you whats going on. Do you really want to know if he cheated on you? Will it change things? Or you just want a reason out? You should believe him, unless he has lied to you about something like this before. He is your husband And you've talked with her? You know if this was me and your husband we would be just talking about how crazy you are acting. Maybe you are giving them a reason to talk, he deletes these calls because he knows if you find it you will go off the handle. I know it's hard, but try to back off and give him some space. You married him for a reason right...because you love him and trust and honour him? Well he married you for the same reasons, believe him and have faith in your relationship because what your doing now is not helping your relationship, its hurting it. Just read that he has cheated before......not good my friend, why not just move on? This guy has some issues he needs to deal with, you sound too good for him.
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Old 12-24-2006, 04:59 AM
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Default How to get your husband to admit he cheated, or his lover to tell you?

here is what you do you pack you leave see if that matters to him don't ask anymore questions TELL HIM that you know and don't debate it further HE IS CHEATING she is still around you need to beat the snot out of her. Make him believe you mean business because he is using one of you at least...you are worth more than this so am I so are all the women who dedicate their lives to men only to have their hearts unanisteically ripped out by them.....He needs a crisis before he will admit give him one
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Old 12-24-2006, 09:55 PM
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Default How to get your husband to admit he cheated, or his lover to tell you?

You are not crazy, so that guy can go....Do you have the $ to hire a P.I.? If not, get a girlfriend and do it like they do in the movies. I've done that once or twice....Especially if it's a girlfriend (or guy) he doesn't know. Collect all the physical evidence you can. Once a cheater, always a cheater and you will always be looking over your shoulder in this relationship if you don't get out now.....Forget about getting to her. They have their story and they're sticking to it obviously.
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Old 12-25-2006, 02:51 PM
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Default How to get your husband to admit he cheated, or his lover to tell you?

Call and lie to her and tell her you got some Sexual Disease from him and you want her to be on the safe side...and see if he say's something to you..
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Old 12-26-2006, 07:46 AM
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Default How to get your husband to admit he cheated, or his lover to tell you?

you need the fast track method, >>>>>>> this way try this , go away for two weeks, tell him im leaving , i will be at this address,for two weeks, you cant call, email me ,or any thing else, I'm going to think about this sitution. for a while, after two weeks, if im still not happy , i will inform you of my decision , when i return, if i return .... he needs to think about this,a lot while your gone i ve been where you are....... this works and real fast !!!
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